A week ago last Sunday Ben finally left us to join the Clarke family. As Ben had stayed with us for two extra weeks and was living in the house as part of the family, with Molly, Jess, Nemo and the pair of us, Andy and I had become quite attached to the little chap and were both dreading him leaving. That said, in some ways we were also looking forward to it as house training and well just any training of two puppys was a real challenge and the two of them together were just as exhausting as seven!
The problem with house training two pups is that they are always focused on what the other is doing. Take them out together and one of them does his business and is allowed to go back inside. The other forgets why he is out there because he wants to go with his brother. You can't keep them both outside because as soon as one has done his business he wants to play, so thats another distraction. Taking them out one at a time is easier but you run the risk of one of them messing inside the house! All good fun
Let's get Mum!
Ben was a lovely little character. From birth he was very close to his brother Rufus and both of them seemed to have quiet natures but were extremely people friendly. When Rufus left us, Ben developed a close bond to Nemo and the naughtier side of him started to develop. We always felt that Nemo was the ring leader and Ben would follow what Nemo did, but if Nemo was sleeping, Ben was more than capable of getting himself into trouble - climbing onto coffee tables, sofas or trying to get into the dog food cupboard!
Exhausted - both of them asleep in the crate before Ben left
Ben - totally pooped
We spent a fun morning with Ben on the day he left ,well, mostly he was fighting with Nemo - I think they had a great time! The pair of them were actually sleeping as the Clarkes arrived to collect their boy, but as he heard the door go Ben woke up and rushed to the front door, tail wagging to greet them all.
Throughout all our pups leaving, Ben was the first to do this and I took it as a sign that things were meant to be and he knew that this was his family. I was however, still very sad when they finally took him off in the car. There were lots of tears as he left, not just from me, Brenda Clarke was also in tears. Brenda's parting words to me were " We will take good care of him" and I know they will but it is still really hard seeing them all go.
A last cuddle
Ben with his new family - Sarah the camera phobic hoodie at the back!
It has been a truly amazing experience for Andy and myself, helping Jess bring the pups into the world, seeing them take their first breath, their first, shaky steps, their eyes opening. We have been with them for every first, their first feed on Jess, their first bottle feed, their first bath in their first bowl of milk,their first bath, their first feed of puppy mush, their second bath! We have seen them all grow and develop their own little personalities and we have fallen in love with each and every one of them. It has been really emotional seeing them all leave home and move on to the next stage in their lives.
We now look forward to updates from all our owners as to how our babies are getting along. It is fantastic to hear how they are all doing and how much they all adore the little - hmmm, probably not so little, ones. One thing that everyone says - yes, you are not alone in this - how exhausting it is bringing up a puppy. I am sure I tried to warn you all about this! Yes, it is exhausting and I think in some ways with a giant breed dog it is much harder than with a smaller puppy. There are so many precautions you have to take and so much to think about all the time. All I can say, and again I am sure that I said this to each of our owners before, it is worth every minute. The time and effort that you put into your puppy in it's first year is hard, there is no doubt about it. But be reassured, you will be paid back in spades. Your efforts will be rewarded with a wonderful, healthy Newfoundland, a loyal companion, a beautiful dog. But beware, they have this strange power Newfies, they take over your life and one is never enough............I am still not quite sure how Andy and I have ended up with three!